tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773099942156500340.post5754805044315907321..comments2023-07-02T08:50:15.080-07:00Comments on Another Cheatin' Top: The choice in rough playBrucehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06670970539093987978noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773099942156500340.post-50658553393529645532015-06-09T21:31:56.980-07:002015-06-09T21:31:56.980-07:00Seeing as how your idea of marriage will be quite ...Seeing as how your idea of marriage will be quite unconventional... Sure! ;-)Brucehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06670970539093987978noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773099942156500340.post-2213279012602054262015-06-09T19:21:18.825-07:002015-06-09T19:21:18.825-07:00Marry me???Marry me???BikeGuyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15899220825504073965noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773099942156500340.post-1927666418163034222015-06-08T08:51:14.670-07:002015-06-08T08:51:14.670-07:00I'm glad to see you're conversant with Joh...I'm glad to see you're conversant with John Rechy's oeuvre. He has lots to say about internalized homophobia. In fact, his characters (are they he himself?) seem to suffer from it quite a bit -- not wanting to display desire, but making himself available as an object of desire. Gives one lots to think about!<br /><br />Paul, NYC <br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773099942156500340.post-5998016139845350952015-06-08T06:12:08.040-07:002015-06-08T06:12:08.040-07:00Hey BlkJack/Paul - Yeah, I'm sure he liked it,...Hey BlkJack/Paul - Yeah, I'm sure he liked it, but I couldn't help but think back to an old novel/memoir from John Rechy - The Sexual Outlaw. Basically, a guy that cruises in the 70s for anonymous sex. He's pretty open, "loose morals", hustles sometimes, etc, but one thing he hates are guys that fetishize cop uniforms because it perpetuates this notion of inferiority by holding those that brutally bully in high regard, that it's internalized homophobia kicked up a few notches by desiring the ones that subjugate you. Of course, the natural objection to that could also be that people are twisting the power play around by making it sexual, making it the exact thing that the oppressors despise.Brucehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06670970539093987978noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773099942156500340.post-69403602997184931642015-06-08T04:21:02.708-07:002015-06-08T04:21:02.708-07:00He might be embarrassed that he went so far but I&...He might be embarrassed that he went so far but I'm sure he'll jack off to your scene for time to come. It would have been nice if he could have cum too -- but that might have not been part of his scene.<br /><br />You paint such vivid picrues -- I can play the videos in my head. Thank you!<br /><br />Paul, NYCAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773099942156500340.post-91938439026690632832015-06-07T19:22:26.441-07:002015-06-07T19:22:26.441-07:00He asked for it. Did you enjoy yourself? Sounds ...He asked for it. Did you enjoy yourself? Sounds like you did.<br />BlkJackBlkJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07025379360552538977noreply@blogger.com