tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773099942156500340.post7219321016765837302..comments2023-07-02T08:50:15.080-07:00Comments on Another Cheatin' Top: Musings: Straight guysBrucehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06670970539093987978noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773099942156500340.post-23955725461177266662015-08-10T09:07:50.315-07:002015-08-10T09:07:50.315-07:00I'm straight!I'm straight! BikeGuyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15899220825504073965noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773099942156500340.post-34241966937632886892015-08-07T09:33:30.764-07:002015-08-07T09:33:30.764-07:00Love Dan Savage. Funny that I don't follow hi...Love Dan Savage. Funny that I don't follow him though. Need to change that. And, JFBreak, as far as losing your anal cherry, small is relative, right? Hehe. I think I'm on the smaller side in terms of girth and rather average in terms of length. Just saying (yeah, sorta have a crush on you, kiddo)! And yeah, I think you're one of the guys that I think of when it comes to people trying to come to a universal truth. Which leads to Anon' point which is we have this overwhelming urge to dichotomize when it seems like the reality is that biology, social constructs, and circumstance can all come to play. It all seems very political, which is odd, because no matter which way you spin it people should be nice to other people regardless and to subjugate another group socially, legally, or otherwise is just plain fucked up.Brucehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06670970539093987978noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773099942156500340.post-31021255975631514772015-08-07T09:06:28.724-07:002015-08-07T09:06:28.724-07:00Great post, very thoughtful. I'm of the fluid ...Great post, very thoughtful. I'm of the fluid belief, that people fall along the line and can swing either way depending on circs. While some are more rigid in their prefs, others can be more open. In some ways, it's like gender. For so long there were only TWO to pick from, despite all evidence, emotional, spiritual and physical to the contrary. People like to pigeonhole stuff.<br /><br />catAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8773099942156500340.post-88797405383960881372015-08-07T03:40:29.907-07:002015-08-07T03:40:29.907-07:00So just a couple of quick thoughts. I'm a fol...So just a couple of quick thoughts. I'm a follower of Dan Savage, the man who has transformed my life in a way, and I like the way he categorizes Bi people. He uses the term "Hetero-Romantic, Bi-sexual" which I think describes me. What that means is, I want sex with both men and women but I prefer women when it comes to romantic relationships. <br /><br />I totally get the folks who say, "Bi now, Gay later". I've just assumed for a long time that I would wake up one day and leave my wife for a man, spend my retirement going to Broadway shows and live happily gay ever after. But that just hasn't happened. Truth is, I still crave blowing guys, I seriously want to lose my anal cherry (to someone with a small dick) but I can't stop crushing on women. Women I want to have sex with and frankly, fall in love with!<br /><br />If I suddenly lose all interest in women, I'll be the first one to stand up and say, yes I had a long transition of acceptance, but I'm finally fully gay. In the mean time, based on my own personal experience, I think we are all somewhere in the middle and the only reason people worry about it is that for a long period of time, being gay was so negatively looked upon that men who were capable of going either way simply hid in the shadows of being straight with an occasional dick on the side.<br /><br />Great post and thanks for the Tumblr links. JFBreakhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10719992585455828870noreply@blogger.com