Misread

His Growlr profile noted that he was submissive, but I think I went too far.  I tore at his ass with my cock while holding him in a choke hold.  He wasn't in any danger but I think he freaked out just enough for me to not be surprised that he didn't reply when I thanked him for a good time the next day.  But then, to my surprise, he messaged me a couple of months later.  So this next time, it was more of a straight-forward fuck.  But he definitely wasn't a top.  Nor did he like to take the lead.  So I was confused until after and he opened up to me and started talking about his partner of over a decade, how he helped his partner through a scary period when brain cancer was discovered.  And without saying it, I realized why he didn't message me.  

We cuddled and I held onto him a little longer than is comfortable, a way of thanking him for opening up to me in so many ways.